Part of the inspiration for this post came over the weekend. With some degree of risk I’ll admit the source. Later.
What’s the value of power?
Power gives the ability, strength, and capacity to do something.
Last week, we explored how questions are powerful. Open-ended questions are really a request for information, designed to help us stop and explore for truth. I reminded us how…
Questions help us give careful thought to reality, the facts; and when examined become a source of feedback. Truth allows us to choose; we can change unproductive behavior, enlarge our influence (leadership), and achieve success…yes, make a difference in the world.
Reflecting on life using questions gives us power - the ability, strength and capacity to change unproductive behavior(s), improve our performance, and make a difference in our world. That’s power!
In like fashion there are two little words that have power…when combined.
This connection came back to me as Rita and I watched the movie “Letters to Juliet”.
I know, it is a “chick-flick”, a romantic film with a predictable, yet engaging story line.
Yes, I enjoyed it.
The film is the story of a letter written to the fictional Juliet Montague of Shakespeare’s play. The film creates space with empty dirt roads, the architecture, food, that sidewalk café, and those cobblestone streets still to be found in Italy. It does seem like a very romantic place. And so,
In Verona, Italy – the beautiful city where Romeo first met Juliet – there is a place where the heartbroken leave notes asking Juliet for her help. It’s there that aspiring writer Sophie finds a 50-year-old letter that will change her life forever. As she sets off on a romantic journey of the heart with the letter’s author, Claire, now a grandmother, and her handsome grandson, all three will discover that sometimes the greatest love story ever told is your own.
Come on, who couldn’t use a little romance?
In the story, the time comes when Claire reads the letter to a group which Sophie wrote; the letter that started the search for Lorenzo. Indeed, the inspiration for this blog.
“What” and “if” are two words as non-threatening as words can be; but put them together side by side and they have the power to haunt you for the rest of your life.
I don’t know how your story ended but if it was true love back then, it is never too late. If it was true love then, why wouldn’t it be now? You need only the courage to follow your heart.
Yes, this is blog is about our personal growth. It is about your dream. It is about the decision you wait to make which postpones the possibilities and adventure or the solution or the thrill of making a difference in someone’s life…even the world.
“What if?” can haunt us or set us on an adventure and the journey of a lifetime.
How might answering this powerful little question, “What if?” change your story?
You make that call?
Write that letter?
Apply for that open position?
Forgive the offender?
Take the risk?
Start your own business?
Take that class? Teach that group?
Mentor that person, ask to be mentored?
What if you care or love?
What if you act on your plan to get out of debt?
What if you read one book a month?
What if you change your eating and exercise habits?
What if you change your thinking about…?
Claire and Lorenzo had lived 50 years of their journey without contact when Claire ask the question: What if Lorenzo is still alive?
What opportunity begs you to ask and answer the question, “What if?”
What do you think? Please leave your comment below, I’d love to hear from you.
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